The nervous system is hardwired to fight, flee, freeze, or shut down when danger looms. While these physiological defenses save lives during a crisis, they often remain active in safe environments, manifesting as chronic anxiety, emotional numbness, or constant hyper-vigilance. Armendariz emphasizes that the healing process does not involve simply forgetting painful memories, but rather repeatedly signaling to the nervous system that the individual is currently secure.

Recovery relies on somatic practices—such as grounding exercises, slow breathing, and gentle movement—to foster body awareness. By recognizing physical cues like muscle tension or shallow breathing in real-time, individuals can interrupt automatic stress reactions. This process is further supported by stable relationships, where connection and acceptance provide the external safety necessary for the nervous system to finally relax. Because trauma affects everyone differently, Armendariz advocates for a gradual approach, allowing emotional reconnection to occur at a manageable pace that builds long-term resilience.